*Friends*

After one friend told me stuffs about another friend , i then find out that for such a long duration that i known my friend , i just didnt know enough.

So i can conclude that duration is not important in friendship or w/e ships.

Its how that person and u yourself place ur friend* be it girlfriend , boyfriend or normal friends.

It doesnt necessarily means that girlfriend or boyfriend must be closer then friends right?

If u can tell even ur darkest secret to your friend instead of ur girlfriend or boyfriend means its not the *word* thats impt its how u treat ur friends.

Ya, its true that everyone have their own problems , conflicts and darkest secrets kept inside them which they wouldnt divulge to others.

And its true that u view others as brother* yet other didnt view you as one , its not either one's fault its just different people has different expectation on different *word*.

For instant i dare not group my friends , all grouped under the word *friend* is i thought enough for me , as i dont even fucking understand the word *friend* , i believe different people have different definition to the word *friend*

Choices have consequences , if i cant even tolerate my friend's behaviour or character , am i fit to be his/her friend?

If only everybody doesnt think of their own interest as priority , this world will be a better place.

If my friend give me attitude , everybody assumes he/she is wrong , yea i can break the friendship with his/her without any guilty conscious.

But the main thing is , i only care about what i think , i know everyone in this world is selfish and place themselves as priority , if me and my friend get hurt , i will heal my own wound first , because i FELT the pain , but not the pain of my friend.

Then i will give excuse ( which is also true ) like if i didnt cure my wounds , how the fuck am i suppose to cure u ? Cure ur wounds while i am in excruciating pain?
We are born to be selfish and put our own interest as priority with excuses that is.

We all do stuffs putting ourselves as priority and take it as a natural reaction cos its hard to put others before us.
If i think for my friend as to why he/she gives me attitude then maybe i can understand his/her reasons for doing that , as everybody got a reason for doing smt , be it the most childish reasons u had ever heard.

If ur friend gives u attitude cos of the most childish reasons that u had ever heard , y should u be bothered by it , break off a friendship cos of such stupid reasons ?
Ridiculous , right.

I believe its fate that people become friends but its chemistry and what u and ur friend do to maintain that friendship.

I just think that if everybody put themselves in other people's shoes , the world will not be so pathetic.

Racisim , despising bisexual , Asexual or pansexual , thats totally childish man.
U made others dislike u cos u dislike them first with hilarious reasons?
That seems childish to me .

Well if everyone was A Good Samaritan , this world will be dull and boring , people will only show *happy* expressing and neglecting those sad and anger emotions that we are born with.

Nevertheless , whatever that happens , i am glad that i can know my friends more through either they themselves told me stuffs that they had hidden or through other friends , astonished i will be but am glad =)

Only by truly understanding yourself first , will you understand others.

Duration doesnt maintain friendship , you and your friend does.

Friendship is like a puzzle , the more u know about ur friend the more u are towards completely knowing them but the gaps in between the puzzle can never be filled.

Oh man , life is boring -.-